How I Share My Marriage

by Ryan on March 9, 2010

On October 10, 2009 I married my lovely wife Renae.

On November 15, 2009 I got married to Futbolist LLC.

And I’ve shared my marriage since then.  [click to continue…]

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Where would American soccer be without… is dedicated to the people, places and things that have been instrumental in the growth of soccer in the United States.  The growth of the game in the US has not taken the most conventional route and this series hopes to pay homage to those who came before us in making the beautiful game truly beautiful in the United States.

Today’s we follow up last week’s message board post with an entry inspired by an old forum thread, Where is Lionel Bienvenue, or more importantly Where is his EPL Review Show?

What athlete did you most want to be when you were growing up?

As a child, when I started to play a sport I immediately pretended to be a professional athlete from that sport. In hockey it was Darren Puppa, in Baseball it was Ryan Klesko, in football it was Jerry Rice, in basketball it was Christian Laettner…

However, when I played soccer, I didn’t play as anyone. [click to continue…]

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Where would soccer be without… is dedicated to the people, places and things that have been instrumental in the growth of soccer in the United States.  The growth of the game in the US has not taken the most conventional route and this series hopes to pay homage to those who came before us in making the beautiful game truly beautiful in the United States.

Today’s maiden voyage takes a brief look at what one person calls the ‘nerve center’ of soccer in the US, the message board/forum.

With clubs and companies scrambling to integrate the latest bells and whistles from social media into their website, the overlooked simplicity of soccer forums remain an integral part of our American Soccer landscape.

In the United States, as soccer began to take hold and grow, message boards such as BigSoccer sprang up to provide a community for everyone interested in the beautiful game.  Big Soccer was referred to as  “arguably the nerve center of American soccer”, by Richard Deitsch of Sports Illustrated’s Richard Deitsch.  Other sites continue to provide places for fans to meet and discuss, such as Xtratime.com or fill a niche, such as DIIIkicks.com (which finds itself in a state of disrepair at the moment).

Message boards provided soccer fans with their own community when the internet was still in it’s infancy. They were easy to manage, and the content which was originally generated from the message board creators shifted to the fans, who soon constructed their own topics and theories on what was happening in soccer in the United States.  Gone were the days of having to suffer through endless discussions about how soccer would never grow in the United States and welcome to the days where your voice could be heard and where you could find fans who shared the same passion. [click to continue…]

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Calling All Western New York Soccer Players – Event to Raise Money for Haiti Aid Set for Jan. 30

January 27, 2010
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On Saturday January 30th, Buffalo State college will have a indoor 4v4 soccer tournament to benefit the American Red Cross Haiti Relief Fund.
I will be there with a bunch of friends taking part in the tournament.  Please come out and show your support for a great cause, and enjoy a Saturday filled with great friends [...]

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a photo a day : 21/365 | blind eye

January 22, 2010

What if you only saw the world through one eye? I do.

I was 16 years old and I went to the DMV to get my license.  I stepped up to the counter, filled out my paperwork, and submitted for an eye test.  The lovely old lady asked me to put my eyes into the goggles [...]

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a photo a day : 20/365 | triathalon begins

January 20, 2010

I’ve been an athlete for as long as I can remember.
Some of my fondest memories growing up were of playing sports.  Countless hours were spent playing home run derby in the back yard, or pickup football outside of my house.  Being an athlete is something that is in my blood, something I will always [...]

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a photo a day: 19/365 | nscaa insanity

January 20, 2010

How do you make the most of Conferences?

For me, the second week of January is the Christmas, New Years, Spring Break and my birthday rolled all into one as it not only brings the start of a new year, but the National Soccer Coaches Association of America conference.
This year’s NSCAA was held in Philadelphia, and [...]

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NSCAA Convention or Bust!

January 14, 2010

Just writing a little note, I did not forget my a photo a day 2010 project nor did I forget everyone else out there.
From Wednesday-Sunday I will be attending the National Soccer Coaches Association of America (NSCAA) conference in Philly, PA.
This conference is much like if a soccer fan died and  woke up in heaven [...]

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a photo a day : 8/365 | smile big

January 9, 2010

Do you truly value/appreciate where you live in the world?
We have so many people talking about workshifting and jetsetting and living the untemplate lifestyle, but I find that truly appreciating where you live in this moment is overlooked for the next stop on our world tour.
If you are always looking to the future, you’ll [...]

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a photo a day : 7/365 | icicles galore

January 8, 2010

Every time I see an icicle I immediately think of ‘A Christmas Story’ when Ralphie tells the story of an icicle falling on his glasses when he shot his eye out.
‘Those things have been known to kill people.” -Ralphie’s mom
As kids we used to break off icicles from the roofs and eat them like they [...]

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